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Divorce Devours

Devours-  Eat (food or prey) hungrily or quickly. I guess it’s possible that I am agist but recently when I have seen people over 50 getting or thinking about getting a divorce, thought is that if they want to be married they need to make this one work because statistically progressive marriages are more likely […]

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De-Escalation

  So Escalation is one of the single most dangerous things to the goals of any relationship.   By escalation I mean something stupid like the direction of the roll of toilet paper makes somebody cranky and and they yell and upset the other.  The other is trying to focus and needs to not be upset […]

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Choking Under Pressure

I am sitting here 9/17/2014 with a horrible knot feeling in my stomach.  I worked my hardest all day but had several cancelled visits.  I dragged my wife all the way to Houston, Texas where neither of us know anyone for the experiment of this job possibly broadening our horizons and stimulating new growth in […]

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Moneyball for Relationships

In a recent book called, The Science of Happily Ever After, the author Ty Tashiro suggests a wife who is agreeable as the most solid bet. Who knows maybe if Elon went for more homely yet agreeable wives the endeavors would also be more successful. We can go to the moon but forget solidly knowing how to get to happily ever after. Here’s to giving it our best though!!!

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Mind Screw

Happy Valentine’s Day! This is one of my least favorite holidays ever because this week statistically has the highest divorce/ breakup rate of the whole year.  Yesterday I was driving around doing my job as usual when it suddenly occured to me that there is also the stigma caused by our own thoughts and perceptions. […]

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